I want to repay the principal

on Tuesday, November 30, 2010


There was a man who has been successful in life and he wants to repay his mother. This man went to see her mother and told that he would like to respond to all the sacrifices his mother for this. "Whatever the mother to be, I'll buy," he said. The mother just smiled and said, "Mom does not want any," But the children still ask. "Whatever the mother. Say. I'll buy. "

Standing also answered no. Whole day was also the son persuaded his mother. Finally she said, "Mom wants you to sleep along with her tonight, be?" Really strange request, but because his mother had promised, he agreed. That night, the child accompanies her mother lay in bed.

Being fast asleep, she took a large glass of water and then menjirus the thigh of the child causing him to wake up from sleep. Without saying anything to switch places the child, shuffle to the bottom of the bed. Interval of an hour later, his mother once again a big glass of water poured into her thigh. The children woke up and felt a bit upset, she asked her mother why water poured into pehanya. "Nothing," replied the mother.

The child back to sleep again after changing his position. When he was in a state of sleep, once again she poured a large glass of water on the same side. This time the child became angry and snapped, "What is the capital? What do mothers try to do this? I want to sleep! Why pour cool water near the groin? "Smiling, she replied," Just now, you want to repay the principal said. Every night when I was little, you always urine during sleep.

"Mother, wake up and change your diaper. After that, your mother over to a dry place because the place had been exposed to wet your urine. Not once but several times over many years. How do you want to repay the principal, if one night you do not have to be patient and endure? "The child was silent and humble frame of mind.

Learn to write on the sand

on Saturday, November 27, 2010


Two people close friend was walking across a desert. Ali and Bidin. In the middle of the course, should suddenly quarrel broke out between them. Ali and Bidin gave a strong blow that landed on her cheek. B felt very ill but did not respond.

Without saying anything, Bidin wrote in the sand: Today my best friend had slapped my face. Then, they continued on until they find a fertile area in the desert. They take a consensus to take a bath in the oasis before continuing the journey is still far away.

In their busy cleaning themselves, Bidin almost sank and drowned, but saved by his friend, Ali. When Bidin starts aware of the fear of drowning and lost, he wrote on a stone: Today my best friend saved my life.

Ali ask : "Why after I hurt your heart, you write on the sand. And now, why did you write on the rocks? Smiling, Bidin said : "When a friend is hurt, we should write in the sand for the wind came blowing and removing sorry the article. And when something extraordinary happens, we should write on the rock of our hearts, so as not to lose the wind blows. "

Indeed in our daily life, frequent disagreements and conflicts caused by our outlook is also different. So please try to forgive each other and forget past disputes. Learn to write on the sand.

Why does the sun

on Thursday, November 25, 2010


A woman asks a young man of love and hope. The woman is said to be the most beautiful flower in the world and the young man said to the sun. Women do not understand why young men want to be the sun, not a butterfly or a beetle, which continues to accompany the flowers.

Women said to be the moon and the young man said to still be the sun. Women getting confused because the sun and the moon will not be met, but the young man wanted to be the sun. Women said to be a bird that can fly into the sky far above the sun and the young man said he will always be the sun.

Women smiled a bitter and disillusioned. Women are three times the suspect but stubborn young man, want to be want to follow the sun without changing with women. So women and never went back again without ever know the reason why the sun is also a choice. The boy stared at himself and stared at the sun.

When women become flowers, young want to be a flower to the sun for survival. Sun will provide all the radiation of interest for it to grow, develop and continue life as a beautiful flower. Even the sun knows he can only look from afar and finally a butterfly that will be dancing with flowers. It's called unconditional love is giving, without expecting any remuneration.

When women become the moon, the young remain for the moon to the sun continues to shine beautiful and admired. Beautiful moon light is sunlight, but when all the creatures who remember admiring the moon to the sun? Sun was willing to give light to the moon even though he himself is not able to enjoy the light of the moon, forgotten and lost glory as a service provider of light, for the moon to get the glory. This is called a sacrifice, a painful but extremely fit for love and affection.

And when a woman becomes a bird that can fly much higher into the sky even in the sun, so the sun always remain young for the birds are free to go at any time ever he wants and the sun will not prevent it. Sun was willing to release the bird to go away, but the sun will always keep the love burning in his heart only to birds.

The sun is always there for any bird ever he wants to return even though the birds do not always have to the sun. There will be no other creatures besides birds are able to get into the sun and get love. This is called loyalty, despite being left off and betrayed, but still waiting and willing to forgive. Youth have never regretted the sun for the women.
 

3 Effective Ways Help Overcome The Fear Of Succes

on Tuesday, November 23, 2010

An idea or event that may sometimes be a boost to your either mentally or physically. This is, no matter whether by trying to play the drama, joining sports teams, start a new career, start a new marriage, losing weight, developing new insights, change your image, or to continue your education. However, in our attempt to move forward, we sometimes receive negative comments from others such as, that's stupid,You're always dreaming, or You'll never make something out of yourself.

Negative statement like that can make the fear of failure and fear in a deductible. This situation can cause a person to surrender and less competitive. Why did you let this happen? Why let others belittle our abilities? Negative attitudes create barriers to individual performance and cause our backs. Implicit message, or not, is Whatever gave you the idea that you are motivated enough?

You may have experienced this situation as if you or a friend but ended up making the team coach left you sitting on the bench? What kind of feelings that you experienced? Contempt? Crisis? What is needed for you to download from the bench and be an athlete, people, you really like it. What prevents you from talking and let the coach know that you are one of the great people, and given the opportunity to prove your greatness and who you really are.

Perhaps it is because you are confident will fail, or even success, in what you set out to accomplish. Will you direct yourself to failure and sabotage your success by telling yourself that you can not do better? Why did you let the words of unproductive and negative thoughts dominate you? Negative self-talk would destroy your motivation and an inner barrier that must be eliminated.

Well, this is three ways to overcome the fear of success :

1. Say to yourself that you're ready to welcome the challenge. Ready and willing to challenge themselves to achieve the maximum level in your life. Move forward in your communication by removing all the negative self-talk.

2. Believe that whatever you want to achieve, you will give one hundred per cent commitment. Stop reason to blame themselves, become incapable of achieving your goals and improve your self esteem. Believe that you are proud of the performance of motivate you to get rid of all the must, and necessity, in your vocabulary.

3. You can be the best. Placed the matter in your mind. Continue to see yourself in a way that developed. Stretch every fiber of mental, emotional, and physical yourself. Believe and feel that you are a dynamite, happy, and the strong. Remember, your faith influence how you feel and act.


3 Positive Steps to discover the purpose of life

on Tuesday, July 6, 2010


In this article we will discuss the concept of life and its underlying principle. We will be going through a step by step procedure, exploring your feelings and options, and by the end of this article, you should have a fairly solid tool you could immediately employ in your life, to give it a meaningful direction.

There are three steps to the process of discovering the purpose of your life:

Understanding the principle of choice
Creating your underlying principle
Aligning your life with the underlying principle

Understanding the principle of choice

Norman Vincent Peale has this to say about the power of choice. “The greatest power we have is the power of choice. It is an actual fact, that if you have been groping under unhappiness, you can choose to be joyous, instead. And, by effort, lift yourself into joy. If you tend to be fearful, you can overcome that misery by choosing to have courage. The whole trend and the quality of anyone’s life is determined by the choice that are made”.

Choosing is the most important activity of your mind, because by making a choice, you are proclaiming your desires to your subconscious mind. Once the subconscious mind get to know your desires, it is going to do anything to manifest them in your life. The choices you make in your life become your goal. And, if you are sincere in pursuing them, there is no reason why you should not accomplish them.

Indecision, on the other hand, not only creates frustration and anxiety, but can also confuse the subconscious mind about what you want. But it is important that the choices you make are made by you, in accordance with your true desires, purposes and aptitude. A lot us of let others make choices for us, or make our choices according to what we think is ‘correct’, even if that means that we go against our wishes. What is right for someone is may not be right for you, and the way to know this is listening to what your heart says.
So, begin with, make a list of things which interests you; things which you have always enjoyed, which makes you feel better, which inspires you to surge ahead, no matter what obstacles you face. Do you like doing something creative, or something artistic? Do you enjoy nature, do you like the sea? Do you enjoy helping others? Do you get pleasure out of making a difference in other people’s life?

What ever it is that interests you, go ahead and make a list under the following headlines:

Things you love to do:

______________________________________

What is it that you love in this thing and why? How you could do this for money, and make a living out of it?

__________________

__________________


Creating Your Underlying Principle:

The next step is to examine the list you just made and find out if there is any recurring them. Maybe, it is the contribution that keeps coming up, or an effect to seek or give love, or helping your parents cope with old age. Whatever it is try to identify the central them of the things you love to do, and try to put it in a short and precise statement. This will be your ‘Mission Statement’. It may even be a quote by a famous person, or a philosophy that has influenced you. Of course, as you grow up, this statement could evolve, but its soul will remain the same. Now, write down your Mission Statement.

Aligning your LIFE with the Underlying Principle:

The final step in this journey is to map your path to your ultimate purpose. Make the little changes in your lifestyle that would accommodate this principle in your life. LIVE this principle each and every day. It might take a few days, but you will certainly feel the difference in your enthusiasm for life. If you realize that you love being amidst nature, plan out your holiday. Maybe an outing with your children could be enough to recoup with your energy. On the other hand, you might even want to change your job, or start a new business, that is more in line with your mission.

Remember – “Do what you love, and money will follow”.


Aku Mahu Membalas Jasa Ibu

on Saturday, July 3, 2010


Ada seorang lelaki yang telah berjaya dalam hidup dan dia mahu membalas budi ibunya. Lelaki ini telah pergi berjumpa ibunya dan memberitahu yang dia ingin membalas segala pengorbanan ibunya selama ini. “Apa sahaja yang ibu hendak, saya akan belikan,” katanya. Si ibu hanya tersenyum dan berkata, “Ibu tidak mahu apa-apa,” Tetapi, si anak tetap bertanya. “Apa sahaja ibu. Katakanlah. Saya akan belikan.” Tetap juga dijawab tiada apa-apa. Sehari suntuk jugalah si anak memujuk ibunya. Akhirnya si ibu berkata, “Ibu mahu kamu tidur bersama-sama dengan ibu malam ini, boleh?” pelik benar permintaan ibunya itu tetapi kerana telah berjanji , dia bersetuju.

Malam itu, tidurlah si anak menemani ibunya di katil. Sedang nyenyak tidur, si ibu mengambil segelas besar air kosong dan kemudiannya menjirus bahagian peha si anak menyebabkan dia terjaga dari tidur. Tanpa berkata apa-apa si anak beralih tempat, mengesot ke bahagian bawah katil. Selang satu jam kemudian, lagi sekali ibunya mencurahkan segelas besar air ke peha anaknya. Si anak terjaga dan terasa sedikit marah, dia bertanya ibu kenapa si ibu mencurahkan air ke pehanya. “Tiada apa-apa,” jawab si ibu.

Si anak kembali tidur setelah mengubah sekali lagi posisinya. Ketika dia dalam keadaan nyenyak, sekali lagi si ibu mencurah segelas besar air ke bahagian yang sama. Kali ini si anak tersentak dan menjadi marah, “Apa ini ibu? Apa yang ibu cuba buat ini? Saya hendak tidur! Kenapa asyik curahkan air dekat paha?” Sambil tersenyum, si ibu menjawab, “Tadi, kamu kata mahu membalas jasa ibu. Setiap malam semasa kecil, kamu selalu terkencing semasa tidur.

“Ibu bangun dan tukar lampin kamu. Lepas itu, ibu alih kamu ke tempat yang kering sebab tempat tadi sudah basah terkena air kencing kamu. Bukan sekali tetapi beberapa kali selama bertahun-tahun lamanya. Bagaimana kamu mahu membalas jasa ibu jika satu malam pun kamu sudah tidak dapat bersabar dan bertahan?” Si anak hanya terdiam dan tunduk membisu.

3 Powerful Tips To Help Manage Everyday Stress

on Friday, July 2, 2010


Often times stress will manifest when we carry over yesterday’s concerns into our present day concerns. An accumulation will almost always end up in a high stress level. Therefore, we must be able to “dump” all of our concerns from the previous day or days and concentrate wholly on our today.

So here are 3 stress busting tips :

- Stress Busting Tip #1

Resolve right now to release every thought from yesterday and be only mindful of the now,this thought only this breath this moment. Take in three very deep breaths and slowly release each one.

At the same time feel each and every concern, each and every problem, and each and every unresolved moment, begin to dissolve. You can deal with them at a later time. For now, you are only to be in this very moment.

Now go to your inner quiet place. Go deep inside to a place where you feel that you are at peace and then just relax and breathe in deeply and enjoy the feeling of being at one and at peace within yourself.

Use this special time and place to be calm. Free your mind and body of all worry, all regret, all disappointment, all anger and grief.

- Stress Busting Tip #2

Next, think of one particular act, such as rocking your baby, taking a quick stroll, raking the leaves, and do that one simple thing. All the while, your mind is quiet and calm and you are in your own special place within.

Practice this act of quiet and calm each day and you will see that you will accomplish so much more. At the first sign of being stressed, go back to this mindful, quiet place and start all over again until you have reached your inner place of calm.

- Stress Busting Tip #3

The very best thing that you can do for yourself is to eat, drink and rest – to your health!

Stress is easily brought on by not eating and drinking properly. When you don’t get the number of hours of sleep that you need each night, you are only setting yourself up for additional stress.

Limit the amount of salt, sugar, caffeine and alcohol in your diet. Drink plenty of clean, pure water each day and do at least moderate exercise each day. This will breathe new life into your skin, hair and will nourish all of your vital organs.

Take time to breathe properly! Take deep belly breathes to send pure oxygen to all of your body. Laugh and then laugh some more. It is food for the soul! Spend time doing the things that please you most. Engage in healthy and fulfilling relationships and work on problems that would erode the closeness that you have with someone special.

When we are content and living a balanced life everyday stresses seem to pale in comparison. We are better equipped to deal with the unexpected.

You can take control today! Isolate only one particular stress in your life and then work on it until you regain control. At the very least, have some new hope!

 
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